|Bringing up the rear|
Often compared to the female G-spot, the male prostate is surrounded by two bundles of nerves and plays an essential role in ejaculation. Some progressive sex pedagogical films released since the late nineties reveal the sex positive feminist potential of female-on-male strap-on sex where women’s active role is advanced as gender differences fade away. Among my favorites are:
- Bend Over Boyfriend: A Couple’s Guide to Male Anal Pleasure (1998), a Good Vibrations’ best-selling tape in the years after it came out, and the top rental, it features Good Vibrations staff sexologist Carol Queen demonstrating female-on-male strap-on sex.
- Bend Over Boyfriend 2 (1999), which features more demonstrations of female-on-male strap-on sex.
- Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women # 1 (1999),
- Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women # 2 (2000),
- Expert Guide to Anal Sex (2007), and
- Expert Guide to Anal Pleasure for Men (2009).
|The Bi Apple|
In one room, Simone meets Tasty Trixie and Tucker Lee (a real life couple who runs the website SpyOnUs.com – Authentic homemade porn). Trixie and Tucker are sitting cross-legged on the floor meditating; she deeply concentrated, he rather fidgety and impatient. The point, explains Trixie, is to balance the chakras and open the senses to attain even greater sexual pleasure. While Trixie shows a genuine interest in experimenting and expanding their sexual repertoire, Tucker always just wants to be “fucked up the ass.” Simone is invited to observe their sex play, which evolves effortlessly the way it does between two lovers intimately familiar with one another.
Trixie and Tucker begin to kiss. She asks him to take off her panties and finger her. Trixie gets comfortable on her back, lying on a yoga mat with her eyes closed. Tucker lies down next to her, propped up on his elbow, still fingering her and following as the expressions on her face change and the blush on her cheeks gradually darkens. He kisses her nipples. She reaches for a tube of lubrication and applies some herself, before his finger finds its way deep inside her. His cock gets hard; he asks her to feel it. Then she bends over to suck it.
Trixi asks Tucker to play with her feet, so he moves down and strokes his penis against her foot; and asks Simone to hand her a vibrator and a bow shaped kegel dildo. Trixie begins to stimulate her clitoris with the vibrator and the G-spot with the dildo. Tucker continues to tickle her foot with his penis, masturbating until he comes over her breasts. But as opposed to the typical money shot in mainstream porn where the woman lustfully swallows the man’s semen, he licks it off himself. Then he massages her breasts until she comes with the aids of her vibrator and dildo.
The Bi Apple is a small budget film that shows a commitment to changing the way we approach sex. Its charm rests in the playful and natural horniness displayed, and the celebration of queer gender bending sexualities; relishing all sorts of sexual appetites, bodies and sex toys. For the film, Ray won the award for “Hottest Bisexual Sex Scene” at the Feminist Porn Awards (2007). The film was also nominated for “Best Bisexual Release” at GayVN Awards, and was screened at Berlin Porn Film Festival (2007) and CineKink NYC (2008).